Success Doesn't Just Happen
Updated: Jul 6
Last night I found a note I'd written to myself (on my phone's notes) in January of 2011. I wrote this when I was a single mom with 3 little kids to support and raise on my own (full-time). When my salary was barely above the poverty line. When I was just trying to survive and keep my head above water. When I had no one to lean on or confide in.
I wrote it before...
Before I'd written a single page of a book.
Before we had a single stamp on our passports (or even had passports).
Before I'd had a six-figure year.
Before I owned a car with less than 200,000 miles on it.
Before I ran a marathon.
Before I read books, or cooked daily for my kids, or traveled, or learned how to take care of and depend on, myself. Back when I felt scared and alone most of the time.
Before I did all of that... I dreamed I COULD.
It was NOT EASY.
It was NOT luck.
No one gave it to me.
No one made it happen, BUT ME.
Before I manifested a single thing on that list, I ALLOWED MYSELF TO WANT IT.
I WROTE IT DOWN.
I began to imagine what my life would be like if any of that stuff came true.
I gave HOPE a chance.
I started taking imperfect ACTION towards it, even though I had no idea what I was doing, or how to make it happen.
And now, 9 years later, I can check off everything on that list (except the goal weight and "mommy makeover." but those will come!).
9 years later... My kids and I have traveled to five countries (passports stamped!), been to 2 home Ravens (NFL) games, sat courtside at NBA games, sat in suites at MLB games, taken a train across Italy. I've written 2 traditionally published #1 best-selling books, and taken the kids to Disneyland, flown first class more times then I can count, far exceeded my income goals multiple years in a row, have bought 3 Mercedes, ran a marathon, become a pretty decent cook, and created a life I LOVE.
I share this not to brag, but to say... If I could do it, ANYONE CAN!
ARE YOU where you dreamed you would be 9 years ago?
Are you living your wildest dreams?
Is your life what you imagined it could be?
Are you the person you dreamed of becoming?
If not, MAKE THAT SHIT HAPPEN!!
Do NOT wait one more day.
DO NOT PUT IT OFF FOR ONE MORE MINUTE.
You can't afford to NOT be living a life you love.
I've created COUNTLESS RESOURCES (at every budget) to teach you everything I've learned.
You can; read my books, do the homework.
You can get the companion homework journal to take the work even deeper on your own.
You can join my coaching circle for live weekly coaching, support and connection.
You could take one of my LIVE virtual classes.
Or take one of my online course to learn what I teach at your own pace.
Or you could even hire me to personally coach you.
The options are there. No matter your budget, you CAN learn how to do this. You CAN change your life. You CAN begin living your wildest dreams.
There is no excuse to NOT be living a life you LOVE! Start checking off your goals and dreams, you've got this!
Here's the list I wrote in 2011.